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” I wonder if white men get asked the same question: do they find their choice in white women limiting? If I happen to find a white guy who shares the same values and there’s chemistry, sure! If I’m on a dating site where they ask you and I have to choose, I don’t pick white.” “Have you ever tried to date a white guy? “Actually, my longest relationship – two years – was with a white guy. But as a teenager – all I knew was that I was rebelling against my parents’ traditional ideas.
“Well, yes, it started out as a political decision but it has manifested into preference. I just don’t find white men that attractive anymore.” “Do you find that limiting? I would later learn how living in a society where positive or attractive images of brown men and women were marginalized or non-existent would affect who I thought was attractive.
This is of course due to the arranged marriage which is prevalent among many segments of Indian society regardless of geography. And, I’d get married when I was old, maybe when I was 28. One late night during Ramadan as I binge scrolled through my Facebook feed, I saw a picture of my Ex. As far as I was concerned, I would only marry a white guy – if I was to get married at all.The white women in their 20s and early 30s who I know don’t seem to have any problem.But it just turns out that I haven’t met the right Indian man for ME yet.